Relationships, friendships, habits, and jobs can be some of the hardest things to let go of. We tend to hang on to things in the name of familiarity. We get comfortable. Even when we're not happy or fulfilled we stay in situations because it is what we know best.
I can speak from experience when I say the more I learn to love myself completely, the easier it has become to let go. To be quite honest an ending is only the beginning of something new. It doesn't have to be frowned upon.
It's okay to burn bridges. It's okay to cultivate new healthier habits. It's okay to start a new job, business, or career path. It's okay to start over. It's okay to meet new people. It's okay to let go of old belief systems.
"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results." When you think about it, it is kinda crazy to repeat the same patterns, behaviors, and actions expecting something to be different. At some point, you have to take another route.
That new route is full of the unknown, so it can be scary. However, you must not concern yourself with what's ahead or what's behind you. You must tap in and become present. Focus on what is in front of you and what's within you. It's all about the NOW! You must not attach your happiness or greatness to anything or anyone.
Beloved, you must let that shit go. Be unapologetic about it. Break the vicious cycle or it shall repeat. Detach! Some will say, "it's hard." It's even harder doing the same thing with the same unfulfilled outcome. Do you feel me? Maybe you don't and that's absolutely okay.
I'll leave you with this, create a life with purpose on purpose. When you transform your mindset, you transform your life. Sending peace and love to all.